Resources for Families During COVID-19

Serving our young people during this time is a top priority of our diocese. Join us in supporting the youth of our congregation. We are in this together. 

 Resources for Learning ​
  • Household Bible Reading with Lectio Divina introduces families and small groups to the practice of studying the Bible using Lectio Divina. “Sometimes the Bible can be confusing and difficult to understand. With Lectio Divina we give ourselves permission to let the Bible be what it is. Questions will undoubtedly surface. If you like, search for the answers. Seek out conversations. Or simply let the questions be.”
  • Blessing Children in the Home is a simple practice for reminding children how loved they are.
  • How2charist is digitally instructed Eucharist and could be a great activity to learn about all that goes on during a church service. 
  • Grow Christians from Forward Movement is a great website to find inspiration for faith at home, describing itself as “striving to create an online community of discipleship focused on the practical details of life at home.” It includes reflections, stories, images, and recipes from diverse Episcopalians, celebrating the presence of God throughout the Christian year.
Resources for Children
During this time of more home-based activities, stay in touch with families with children and encourage them to go deeper in their faith together.
  • Household Bible Reading with Lectio Divina introduces families and small groups to the practice of studying the Bible using Lectio Divina. “Sometimes the Bible can be confusing and difficult to understand. With Lectio Divina we give ourselves permission to let the Bible be what it is. Questions will undoubtedly surface. If you like, search for the answers. Seek out conversations. Or simply let the questions be.”
  • Blessing Children in the Home is a simple practice for reminding children how loved they are.
  • The New Zealand Prayer Book Compline is well worth exploring, offering a peaceful prayer service for end of day with the family or with others online.
  • Grow Christians from Forward Movement is a great website to find inspiration for faith at home, describing itself as “striving to create an online community of discipleship focused on the practical details of life at home.” It includes reflections, stories, images, and recipes from diverse Episcopalians, celebrating the presence of God throughout the Christian year.
  • Illustratedministry.com is offering free coloring pages during this time.
  • Faith at Home is an offering of the Episcopal Church that provides a lot of resources including Lesson Plans that Work, the Book of Common Prayer in an easy-to-navigate PDF, and more.

Resources for Youth
  • Zoom is a way to connect, have bible study, compline or just see the youth you minister to on a more regular basis. Contact the Office of the Bishop if you would like access to our account. ​
    • Keep it fun! Have your youth join the video meeting with their favorite beverage in hand, ask the youth to show up in their (appropriate) pjs for a lock-in feel, play show-and-tell with one unexpected thing from their room…Ideas like these will help you feel like you are together and will help you continue to build community.
    • Don’t be afraid of silence. Silence on video calls is especially awkward; it can feel even longer than face-to-face silence. It’s okay. Hold the space for people to think before responding just as you would with face-to-face meetings.
    • Having a hard time hearing everyone? Remind your group to mute themselves when they aren’t speaking. This will get rid of background noise that may be distracting and household conversations that your family may not want overheard.
    • Have meetings just to check in. Have meetings to talk about how the group is feeling as they process the reality we find ourselves in. Have meetings. The worst thing you can do is not meet at all. You want to make sure your group knows that they are cared for. Keep your community strong, check in with each other, support each other the best way you can. Online faith formation may feel clunky at first, but will help keep your group together and remind youth of how important they are.
  • Social media is a great way to stay connected during these times. We recommend Instagram for youth. Check out the @episcoposse_md instagram for some inspiration on what we share. Lizzie Mcmanus put together some neat thoughts on social media during this time. View them here. 
  • GroupMe serves as a great way to connect via group text with much better functionality than a thread text.

Mental Health First Aid and Suicide Prevention

Curated by The Office of Youth Ministries for The Episcopal Church 
If you are in suicidal crisis or emotional distress, help is available: 800-273-8255.
Available 24 hours. Languages: English, Spanish. This National Suicide Prevention Lifeline provides 24/7, free and confidential support for people in distress, prevention and crisis resources for you or your loved ones, and best practices for professionals. (Note: the national 988 hotline is not anticipated to be completed until July 2022)
You can also text, 741741 or click here for immediate confidential support.
Statistics on SuicideAccording to the American Foundation for Suicide Prevention and the Centers for Disease Control and Prevention:
  • Suicide is the 10th leading cause of death in the Unites States.
  • In 2018, nearly 48,000 Americans died by suicide and there were 1.4 million suicide attempts.
  • From 1999 through 2018, the suicide rate increased 35%, from 10.5 per 100,000 to 14.2.
  • In 2018, suicide rates were higher in the most rural counties compared with the most urban counties for both males and females.
  • 54% of people who died by suicide in 2016 did not have a known mental health condition.
Since the onset of the COVID-19 pandemic the Centers for Disease Control and Prevention reported in August 2020:
  • The prevalence of symptoms of anxiety disorder was approximately three times those reported in the second quarter of 2019 (25.5% versus 8.1%), and prevalence of depressive disorder was approximately four times that reported in the second quarter of 2019 (24.3% versus 6.5%)
  • Mental health conditions are disproportionately affecting specific populations, especially young adults, Hispanic persons, black persons, essential workers, unpaid caregivers for adults, and those receiving treatment for preexisting psychiatric conditions. Unpaid caregivers for adults, many of whom are currently providing critical aid to persons at increased risk for severe illness from COVID-19, had a higher incidence of adverse mental and behavioral health conditions compared with others.
  • Approximately twice as many respondents reported serious consideration of suicide in the previous 30 days than did adults in the United States in 2018, referring to the previous 12 months (10.7% versus 4.3%)
BackgroundIn 2018, General Convention passed resolution C014, which recognized that “clergy and adults who work with youth are often on the frontlines of suicide prevention” and resolved that “the institutions and diocesan programs that educate Priest and Deacons be encouraged to offer four (4) hours of suicide prevention education, using evidence-based trainings, for its students, and that dioceses offer similar suicide prevention training for their clergy and adults who work with youth.” In addition, the resolution continued, “that the General Convention urge local congregations to call on state and federal leaders to develop and implement strategies to increase access to quality mental health, substance abuse, and suicide prevention services.” The resolution was assigned to for implementation to the Department of Faith Formation along with the budget line item of $75,000, which was allocated for the triennium.
In September 2019, leaders in the identified program areas were convened for a day-long “Summit” in Denver Colorado to begin the process of developing suicide education resources and trainings. As an immediate first step, several resources were identified as helpful and relevant. In September 2020, this working group gathered again to continue to refine these resources and, given the dramatic rise in suicide rates, to partner with LivingWorks to provide training for leaders in recognize when someone is thinking about suicide and connect them to help and support. Click here to learn more and enroll in this training.
Mental Health & Suicide Prevention Education and Resources Resources for Indigenous Communities Resources for Hispanic/Latinx Communities LGBTQ+ Resources Resources for Teens and Young Adults Faith Based Resources Training & Advocacy Resources Other Resources Related General Convention resolutions
  • 2009-D011: Reaffirm the Principles with Regard to the Prolongation of Life
  • 2000-A069: Authorize Additions to Supplemental Liturgical Materials
  • 2000-D008: Adopt Diocesan Resolution on Suicide Prevention
  • 1997-C013: Request Study of Theological Implications of End of Life Issues
  • 1994-A056: Amend General Convention Principles on the Prolongation of Life

SOCIAL MEDIA & SAFE CHURCH

RETREATS & CONFERENCES

FROM AROUND THE DIOCESE

Happening # 12 – A Light in the Darkness: A Rector's Return
Ten years ago, I led my first Happening at the Claggett Center. Surrounded by the ‘church camp’ family I had built for myself over four years of service and ministry across the United States and Maryland, I spoke to my peers about finding God in the ups and downs of life. Our theme for Happening #2 in 2009 was “Life is a Rollercoaster,” and together we spent our weekend remembering to trust God in the lows, as easily as we turned to Him in the highs that life hands us. As I spoke that weekend, I remember feeling I was like closing a door on a chapter of my life. That Happening was the last Maryland Diocesan Youth Event I attended for ten years. It was also the last time I attended church for ten years.
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The Eye of the Storm: Campus Ministry Alternative  Spring Break
When most people hear the word “hurricane,” the first thing they think of is either Hurricane Katrina or Hurricane Sandy; as for the residents of Lumberton, North Carolina, they think of Hurricane Matthew.
Lumberton, NC is a small town in Robeson County, one of the most diverse in the state, but most interestingly one of the homes of the Lumbee Tribe, the fourth largest Native American Tribe in the nation. Lumberton, however, was also not very financially privileged before the events that occurred between September 28th and October 18th, 2016, with a third of its population beneath the poverty line. To protect the big corporations in town that were stimulating the economy of the town from flooding, the U.S. Army Corps of Engineers built a dike. This would come back to bite them in the rear, since it ran alongside the Lumber River.
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Combined Youth Groups Use Theater to Discuss Racism
In a recent Sunday morning service, Crystal Johnson, youth director at Asbury-Broadneck United Methodist Church on the Broadneck peninsula, welcomed guests from nearby St. Margaret's Church and asked them to stand. The service that morning focused on a civil rights program that was written by an Asbury youth member focused on the idea that it takes all kinds of people -- white, black, Christians, Jews, men, and women -- to help secure the civil rights of all.  After his visit, St. Margaret's Director of Family Ministries Jenelle Mejia then reached out to youth director Johnson, trying to come up with ways their children and youth could connect. To celebrate Black History Month at Asbury, a youth member had written the play on civil rights, and St. Margaret's youth were asked to perform multiple roles.
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PROGRAMS

Drug Awareness: A  Father's View of His Son's Addiction 
Cost: $0
Our nation, our state, our communities are currently living with an opioid (heroin, prescription pain pills) epidemic! Bob Hoopert Jr. of Harford County has developed a presentation that is focused on helping young adults (6th grade and up) avoid the pitfalls associated with drugs and alcohol. The presentation is based on his son's addiction to heroin and his recovery. Over the past 4 years, Bob has spoken to Youth Ministry groups at numerous churches in Harford County, northern Baltimore County, and southern Pennsylvania. Bob's main goal is to fill the young adults with encouragement to live their lives to the fullest without drugs and alcohol.

He will be glad to do a quick walkthrough of his presentation with anyone who is interested.
Bob can be contacted at 410-692-4157 or at crhoopert@zoominternet.net.
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RESOURCES

The youth team is always on the hunt for fantastic new resources to share with those working with young people. If you know of anything that we should add, contact us!

ORGANIZATIONS

  • Youth Ministry TEC
  • Join Forma, an independent association and community of Christian educators, formation professionals, and institutional partners. Annual conference at Virginia Theological Seminary.
  • Living Compass is a is a faith-based wellness ministry providing resources, coaching, education, training, and support to individuals, families, and congregations.
  • Lifelong Faith provides resources, hosts an annual symposium, and produces Lifelong Faith Journal, free to anyone who joins the mailing list.

Campus Ministry

ABOUT YOUTH MINISTRY 

Print & eReaders

Baker, Dori Grenenko. Lives to Offer: Accompanying Youth on Their Vocational Quest (Cleveland: The Pilgrim Press, 2007)

Dean, Kenda Creasy. Almost Christian: What the Faith of Our Teenagers is Telling the American ChurcH (New York: Oxford University Press, 2010)

Martinson, Roland, Wes Black, and John Roberto. The Spirit and Culture of Youth Ministry: Leading Congregations toward Exemplary Youth Ministry (St. Paul: EYM Publishing, 2010) 

Mercer, Joyce Anne. Girltalk Godtalk: Why Faith Matters to Teenage Girls and Their Parents (San Francisco: Jossey-Bass, 2008) 

Pearce, Lisa, and Melinda Lunquist Denton. A Faith of Their Own: Stability and Change in the Religiosity of America’s Adolescents (New York: Oxford University Press, 2011)

Roberto, John. Faith Formation 2020: Designing the Future of Faith Formation (Naugatuck: LifelongFaith Associates, 2010)

Root, Andrew, and Kenda Creasy Dean. The Theological Turn in Youth Ministry (Downers Grove: InterVarsity Press, 2011)

Yaconelli, Mark. Contemplative Youth Ministry: Practicing the Presence of Jesus (Grand Rapids: Zondervan, 2006)